How do you feel about your girl/guy "looking but not touching?"

[RAZOR_BLADE]

Personally, I don't mind at all if my woman was to gawk at another guy. So long as I get to gawk at another girl. LOL.

[Mizz_Luv3r]

I don't care either way. Because, if he wanted to be with me, he wouldn't touch anyway. If he does, he can be with her. Next! lol I look a lot myself.

[gaykhmerguy]

It's okay....but it can be a huge sign of something wrong as well. You may only see them looking...but you don't know what happens when you're not around.

[LaoGuy]

I think everybody look, and everybody wants to touch it's ok we're only human. But when you do a double take, almost breaking your neck trying to check them out while you are with your significant other than you are disrepecting them and yourself.

[llcoolrich]

I'm completely fine with that. Once you know her spot, you can be confident she aint messing with anyone else lol

[urpimped]

i dont mind...

[VIB0L]

Just don't make it too obvious, then I'm okay.

[NarutoMysticNinjaLord]

I would say go right ahead I would have no shame if my girl was looking at other guys.

[Azi]

No problem with it. My bf either wouldn't do it or at least not make it obvious. I, on the other hand, will point out a gorgeous girl and ask his opinion just to see him blush.

[Vihear]

I think it's just really inconsiderate that is all. =X

[Mizz_Luv3r]

I think it's really inconsiderate for anyone to look at other people when that person made that commitment to be with that person unless it was some sort of open relationship.

Just looking, no crime in that.

[Vihear]

Just looking, no crime in that.

lol you just had to reply to my post when I made changes to it and now it's stuck on there forever. =[

P.S. This is what I'm aware of from the past few relationships and from girls I have encountered in the past. These were their words passed on to me lol.

It's the thought of checking out someone else that hurts the person.

[NarutoMysticNinjaLord]

I would not even mind if she went to hug them.

[Mizz_Luv3r]

lol you just had to reply to my post when I made changes to it and now it's stuck on there forever. =[

P.S. This is what I'm aware of from the past few relationships and from girls I have encountered in the past. These were their words passed on to me lol.

It's the thought of checking out someone else that hurts the person.

Sowee. But I've had a BF that got so nervous around a cute girl, he couldn't even properly order his food. I think it's cute. I'm not the very jealous or clingy type. If the dude loves me, he comes home to me. But if he so happens to stray, that's okay too. There's other fishes in the sea. We can't live life on the hopes of that one sole person being the only one we can love.

[newbie]

No Looking,staring, no touching..no shit nothing LOL..my man have roaming eyes..and it's disrespectful towards me when I see that.

Don't lie. I caught you e-staring at me the other day.

[chillingrsx]

I had guys hitting on my girls I used to date like it's nothing. So I became used to it. Even dudes be hitting on my wife. I'm comfortable with myself and trust her enough to worry about such petty thing.

[HollywoodJack]

If a guy is hitting on your girl, take it as a compliment that your girl is pretty hot. What matters is how your girl react to that attention.

[Sotheara]

I do it all the time. She does it all the time. Not a big deal. You both can admire other people's attractiveness, but in the end your significant other will just want to be with you. Plus if you restrict a person and say you can't look at other people, they're gonna start resenting you, rebel, and do it anyway out of spite. That's when shit gets messy.

Of course if a guy is hitting on your girl and they exchange numbers, yeah that's something different.

[LePrince]

I don't care either way. Because, if he wanted to be with me, he wouldn't touch anyway. If he does, he can be with her. Next! lol I look a lot myself.

That's the right attitude to have! I know love makes you blind but it gets on my nerves when ladies or fellaz swear up and down that there's only one fish in the sea. GET OVER IT! haha If someone wants to go, let them go!

[Sary]

Just as long as he doesn't do anything else besides watching, I'm fine by it.

[LaReine]

I used to be the look, but don't touch. Now it's...you can touch all you want. Feels good not being jealous. But if he touches and the other person is uncomfortable, that's when I get mad, but he wouldn't do that... this mama taught him better. Same way here, he doesn't get jealous at all if somebody tried to flirt with me, but only certain people, not people he knows personally. He hates it and it makes him feel uncomfortable.

[K+L]

I used to be the look, but don't touch. Now it's...you can touch all you want. Feels good not being jealous. But if he touches and the other person is uncomfortable, that's when I get mad, but he wouldn't do that... this mama taught him better. Same way here, he doesn't get jealous at all if somebody tried to flirt with me, but only certain people, not people he knows personally. He hates it and it makes him feel uncomfortable.

So you let your man touch other women when he's around you? Interesting......

[Last_Chanse]

It’s whatev. I do it all the time. Not in a disrespectful manner, but more so like... “Hey, I’m a dude. And I have a penis.” It’s natural. No staring, just quick harmless peak, then I’m ghost. I’m not the jealous type, either. She can look, but can’t touch (unless we’re gonna swing together). Have I mentioned that I have a weird fetish to wanna watch my girlfriend get f*cked real hard, by some random stranger. Kinda turns me on.

[sSilentxstarzZ]

Have I mentioned that I have a weird fetish to wanna watch my girlfriend get f*cked real hard, by some random stranger. Kinda turns me on.

what the..? lol. that doesn't gross you out, at all?

[NarutoMysticNinjaLord]

Just as long as he doesn't do anything else besides watching, I'm fine by it.

How about a hug from him?