by, 08-18-2012 at 04:25 AM (588 Views)
It turned out when she stated her commitment to get married, she only wanted to keep that between me and I for the time being. Unfortunately, before I had the chance to tell me mom, one of my uncles had already called her mom to press about us. Oh well, not all is lost. We're deciding to keep in contact and build a relationship to get to know each other before she makes a final decision.
Patient has to set in, which I'm kind of glad because I'm not completely ready to have our marriage set. There are some things I must take care of right now... from health to employment and finances. I trust that she is the one, as they would say in Khmer my kou preng, just that it's too soon to tell between us for her to make a real commitment, aside from promising to me that she accept me.
She sounds genuine and even got offended about when I offered to send her money, saying she's well off enough and doesn't want to run into the type that uses money as a mean and in the end gets played. She just wants to make sure that we are able to get along because this commitment is for the rest of our lives.
I love her even more now that I talked to her tonight, but I'm going to save on my Long distance phone bill and wait till next weekend to call her again. Besides, calling too soon and we don't have too much to talk about.