Biggest mistake is to compare others to your ex. A woman never wants to be number two, it's not fair to her.

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You're reminiscing too much. This year would mark the 10 year anni? Just let it go and move forward.

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shit happen. learn from it and make it better the 2nd time around. whatever you do, don't do anything that hazzard to yourself or love ones. what do I know? i don't even know you....one thing I know is, being single take a lot to get used to when were used to be with someone. You're probably better off without her. like they said, they're ex for a reason. You wouldn't want to go back 5 years or ten years. just keep your head to your future goal and improve yourself one day at the time. Who know, 5 yrs or ten yrs down the road, you're going to look back and be proud of who you are now. You got through the tough time and made it to happiness land once again! At the mean time, hang in there, sir.

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Still not over her? Give someone else a chance and maybe you can forget. I used to be like you thinking and missing my ex from HS and thought no one can make me feel the way she does, then one day I just made new memories and moments with someone else, and hardly even think or care about my ex anymore. Just give new relationships a chance to bloom by itself.

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You are the creature of your own sucksess or failure! What Ivan said is the solution, but avoid rebounds because so many people use the new person as a stepping stone which is worst karma especially if you get intimate with the new bitch to move on then toss her. That were time come in. Take the time to heal and someone new that come along to move on with. As for the memories its okay to miss your all while you are alone and healing, no one can take those away thinking about her make you feel good and remind her you can have it again with another love it just take time but realty check bro she not the only puzzay in da world! I'd worry more about the kids and toss my own heart/feeling to the curb. Sacrifice! Kids always comes first. Good lucks.

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Yeah, man. Believe it or not marriage is good but being single isn't all that bad. The bad part of being single is no one behind you to double check the way you spend your hard earned dollar. In my case, I blow a lot of money on stupid stuffs when I was single. But, what I like the most when I was single was that I could take off to any places at an instant without any consecquences...where as now that I'm married everything has to be approve by the Mrs. It take a bit to get used to. If you got the mean to travel, do it when you're not attached. Try Mexico, European trips, Hawaii, Asia etc. Traveling will help lift your spirit instantly.

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Originally Posted by Toast

Yeah, man. Believe it or not marriage is good but being single isn't all that bad. The bad part of being single is no one behind you to double check the way you spend your hard earned dollar. In my case, I blow a lot of money on stupid stuffs when I was single. But, what I like the most when I was single was that I could take off to any places at an instant without any consecquences...where as now that I'm married everything has to be approve by the Mrs. It take a bit to get used to. If you got the mean to travel, do it when you're not attached. Try Mexico, European trips, Hawaii, Asia etc. Traveling will help lift your spirit instantly.

Dude, you make marriage sound so depressing.

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marriages arent depressing, cambodian ones are.

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Did I make it sound like being married is depressing? I didn't mean it to come out that way. Actually marriage helps me. My wife is my check-and-ballance. She sees things I miss. I found that my wife is actually helping me especially when it come to finance.

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M.O.B = money ova bitches

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You're not a failure man. We live and we learn. Once that next girl comes into your life, you'll learn how valuable she is and never make the same mistake again.

Just wait, have faith and be positive.

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