DoungJan

How to deal with break up

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How do i help a friend deal with break up?
I really can't stand on the side and do nothing.
I'm so sad that she is soo heart broken. When she is with me i could take her mind off of him and have fun with her, but when she is by herself she started to think about him.
She asked me for advice and to brainwash her so she can be happily single again but as everyone know..i'm the last person for anyone to ask on how to deal with break up. any advices??

when a friend is hurt, i''m hurt as much or double the amount because i don't know how to help

- Doungjan
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  1. Icyfrozen's Avatar
    Only time can heals her broke heart.
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  2. Tidus's Avatar
    tell her to get a new 1. nothing good can come out of lingering onto the past.
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  3. LaLa's Avatar
    Check out other guys at school lol
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  4. christmasSOCKSinJuly's Avatar
    Tell her I said whats up. I'll make her forget about her bf real quick
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  5. N0VEMBER's Avatar
    she has to keep herself busy on other things.
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  6. ILoveOysters's Avatar
    eat eat and eat some mo, chocolates, cupcakes etc. load her up lol
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  7. vassana's Avatar
    Go out and meet new people. Be productive. No one can help her get over her heartbreak, especially a rebound. Nothing good comes out of mingling old feelings with the new. Sometimes being single is a good thing, it gives us a chance to know and understand ourselves better. For now, stay beautiful, have fun, and become successful, that should keep her busy all the time. Eventually she will meet someone who can make her 100 times happier in the future. Don't settle for less! Good luck to your friend.
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  8. DoungJan's Avatar
    thank for the advices everyone...I will definitely take them!
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  9. socold57's Avatar
    as you get older you should get stronger, one door closes open another one and dont go backwards he/shes leaves dont take em back. move forward and not backwards,

    after a breakup spend time with family and friends and keep busy and stay strong,
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  10. Boross_IT's Avatar
    I'd tell her to channel her emotions into something productive and/or creative. Poetry, song writing... arts and crafts. When you're filled with so much emotions and you channel it into something positive, it can reap great benefits and rewards. Who knows, she could be the next Adele, or maybe Picaso. Good luck to your friend.
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  11. Matique's Avatar
    You can be there for moral support, but the only person who can help her is herself. Time eventually heals wounds, but it is up to the person to move it on along. Go out, do things with her. The best thing to do is just listen.
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  12. Tidus's Avatar
    when theyre about to break into tears give em a hard slap to the forehead. works 100% of the time.


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    Updated 04-30-2012 at 02:04 AM by Tidus
  13. k82562131's Avatar
    I don't know how girls do it. I'd say, just listen to her, nod your head, and agree with whatever she says even though she's wrong. meh.
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  14. loverboy209's Avatar
    breakups suck. i fell madly in love 2 years ago (the best and worst one ever) and when the girl broke my heart, i still had to go to work and try to move on but i was so sad and depressed and my coworker told me he hated seeing me that way. i was doing ok before i met her. if i could go through it again, would i? i would love to go through the high moments and avoid the low moments. love songs help and cry a lot and let it all out. and give yourself time. 2 years later i'm like 1% over that girl but that 1% was enough for me to get my sanity back cuz i felt like i was losing it for a moment there. yeah it's nice to have a supportive friend like you. buy her a lot of ice cream cuz that's one of my soul food. if i get fat, i don't care, i could always burn it off later.
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    Updated 04-30-2012 at 07:49 PM by loverboy209
  15. Sovie's Avatar
    I've never been through a breakup myself, thankfully, but I have had to help a few friends get over breakups. I think the best thing to do at first is just to be there for them. Once I spent a whole night holding onto a friend's hand as she cried herself to sleep. Secondly, I help them learn to re-channel the love they had for that person back to themselves. Most of the time it's talking about qualities they like about themselves and giving them opportunities to use that talent. If she loved cooking before then have meals together where you guys cook together, etc. Thirdly we focus on goals, small ones at first then bigger ones. And they can be anything. Like picking up a book and reading it. It shows them that they still have strength, courage and hope for the future. I'm not quite sure how I came up with this formula but it seems to work everytime. Goodluck to you and your friend. She will be a better, stronger person after overcoming this. You just need to show her that.
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  16. Khmerguy's Avatar
    Best 1st thing I would advise to do...is get active...start up a hobby besides being indoor or online most of the times...myself I travel,run,fishing, n etc..things that are positive n healthy...she gotta learn how to love herself b4 she can care n <3 someone else...best of luck..^_^
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