i got stood up today and i deleted that girl's number from my phone. huy women. i feel sad. sorry for the short blog. i have nothing to say...
u don't know her and u shouldnt take it personal. You remind me of Suriya.
Women usually know they're interested in you within the first 10 seconds of meeting you, and seems like this wasn't the case with you from the beginning when you initiated a conversation and she replied with brief, one word answers lol. If I were in your shoes at that moment, my man-instincts would've told me she's not interested, so move onto the next. But since you pursued anyway, I was rooting for it to be successful. However, I think you bothered her too much to the point where she probably just got annoyed. But since she gave you her real number, it means you kinda had a chance.
Here's what I think you should have done after you got her #. Don't call it right away, even just to check if it's real. You gotta wait it out and make her sort of forgot about you, so that when you do call to check (with a blocked #) she wouldn't know it was you being creepy. Once you verified it was real, wait it out again for two or three days and then call her (without a blocked #) to say hi, remember me, blah blah...talk and make her feel comfortable with you. THEN arrange a date & hopefully by then if you're smooth enough, she'll wanna go out with you where you wouldn't be stood up lol. I personally do believe in being the aggressor, except you gotta know when to pull back the reins a bit when shit just seems awkward for girls. I think your persistency to see her again so soon made her backtracked.
It's alright though, feel bad for a day & then try again with another girl. Hopefully it'll be a success
You have to understand women a little better. I'm not saying that I do, but look at where she's coming from. She's going to apply for a job. She's probably in financial stress and looking for a way out of some sort. Love is the furthest from her mind really. She could have liked you, but because of her situation, it prevented her from pursuing the finer things in life like a date out of the blue.
Don't take it personally, but next time try to read deeper into the situation. I think if you would have offered to take her out to lunch (before you lost track of her), it would have done you wonders. You, too, were there to apply for a job, and to go out of your way to offer her food/nourishment before you even got to know her will most likely earn you extreme cookie points. It at least would give her the impression that you were sincere with your intentions to befriend her, and a woman with a full stomach is more likely to be accommodating than one who is wondering where her next meal will come from.
Having said all that, I think women are an enigma. You do have to do your homework, but some are just beyond our comprehension. Don't beat yourself up if you can't come up with the unified theory of everything to solve such an enigma. Just move onto the next one.
hmm. i dont understand why you got stood up. seems really odd that she agreed to meet you someplace but then canceled at the last minute. i will never understand how someone could be so callous. happy hunting tho bro. im sure youll meet someone who is deserving of your affection. maybe sometimes its not the attractive and sexy ones that will make you happy. although having good looks is a big part of longevity in a relationship i find that sometimes just being good looking doesnt cut it.
It's okay, she's not worth it. At least you tried, eh? How many guys can say that. But next time, don't be so creepy lol.
Lol you sound lik the guy I met from bt collins! I didn't actuallly stood him up, I was running late but he never spoke to me again! Ahahahahaahaha