lovelife update - i might have a date tomorrow
by, 03-21-2012 at 06:13 AM (398 Views)
ok i don't think i played my cards right with this girl but i'm moving forward. the reason i called her from a blocked number was not to be creepy but to get to the bottom of her number being real or not. believe me i've had my share of fake phone numbers. back in the day when i was just starting college, i would get girls numbers here and there at the mall. and then i would wait 3 days and call the girl only to discover that the number reached some guy's voicemail or some other person. those 3 days i waited were agonizing enough especially when i was very attracted to the girl and the disappointment was very heartbreaking. so from that point on, when i get a girl's number, i would call right away. just to save myself the hassle. one time a girl gave me her number and then when i called her out on it, she said one of the digits was off. i'm not sure i bought it. and if more than one digit is off i more than likely don't buy it. the reason i call them out is cuz i want them to feel dumb trying to come up with an explanation. but yeah i learned that women sometimes feel obligated to give a guy their phone number cuz they feel sorry for the guy or whatever. oh gosh, seriously, a bunch of us are grown men and we can take rejection. it's not like you're our first rejection. i would rather have a girl lie to me and say she has a boyfriend or married than give me a fake number. or better yet just tell me she's not interested or i'm not her type. nothing wrong with that. people need to just keep it real.
so i called her up and talked to her again tonight for a minute and she said she's free tomorrow and that she's not a morning person so maybe i can take her out in the afternoon. i don't even know where to take her but i definitely want to hug that pretty face and sexy body. i know that sound hella perverted huh. lol. also after how she played her cards today i'm gonna play hard to get now. it's officially on - loverboy is in hard-to-get-mode. i don't really know how to play hard to get but i'm gonna try my best cuz i want to be her man and for her to be my "sweet lady" (tyrese oh yeah!)
my gameplan is that when i see her tomorrow, i'm gonna pretend to be gay. i'm gonna make eye contact with her and when a guy walks by, i'm gonna check out the guy instead. but when a girl walks by, i'm gonna give her all the attention in the world. maybe she'll really buy it and think i'm gay and maybe then i can spend more time with her. or maybe i can pretend i don't care and leave her scratching her head. i swear i hate head games. but this is probably the only way to win her heart. and right now i think am overanalyzing all of this - the typical loverboy in me. one of my coworkers doesn't even know me that well and the other day he said i have a mangina. that's a new one for me.