loverboy209

lovelife update - i might have a date tomorrow

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loverboy209
, 03-21-2012 at 06:13 AM (398 Views)
ok i don't think i played my cards right with this girl but i'm moving forward. the reason i called her from a blocked number was not to be creepy but to get to the bottom of her number being real or not. believe me i've had my share of fake phone numbers. back in the day when i was just starting college, i would get girls numbers here and there at the mall. and then i would wait 3 days and call the girl only to discover that the number reached some guy's voicemail or some other person. those 3 days i waited were agonizing enough especially when i was very attracted to the girl and the disappointment was very heartbreaking. so from that point on, when i get a girl's number, i would call right away. just to save myself the hassle. one time a girl gave me her number and then when i called her out on it, she said one of the digits was off. i'm not sure i bought it. and if more than one digit is off i more than likely don't buy it. the reason i call them out is cuz i want them to feel dumb trying to come up with an explanation. but yeah i learned that women sometimes feel obligated to give a guy their phone number cuz they feel sorry for the guy or whatever. oh gosh, seriously, a bunch of us are grown men and we can take rejection. it's not like you're our first rejection. i would rather have a girl lie to me and say she has a boyfriend or married than give me a fake number. or better yet just tell me she's not interested or i'm not her type. nothing wrong with that. people need to just keep it real.

so i called her up and talked to her again tonight for a minute and she said she's free tomorrow and that she's not a morning person so maybe i can take her out in the afternoon. i don't even know where to take her but i definitely want to hug that pretty face and sexy body. i know that sound hella perverted huh. lol. also after how she played her cards today i'm gonna play hard to get now. it's officially on - loverboy is in hard-to-get-mode. i don't really know how to play hard to get but i'm gonna try my best cuz i want to be her man and for her to be my "sweet lady" (tyrese oh yeah!)

my gameplan is that when i see her tomorrow, i'm gonna pretend to be gay. i'm gonna make eye contact with her and when a guy walks by, i'm gonna check out the guy instead. but when a girl walks by, i'm gonna give her all the attention in the world. maybe she'll really buy it and think i'm gay and maybe then i can spend more time with her. or maybe i can pretend i don't care and leave her scratching her head. i swear i hate head games. but this is probably the only way to win her heart. and right now i think am overanalyzing all of this - the typical loverboy in me. one of my coworkers doesn't even know me that well and the other day he said i have a mangina. that's a new one for me.
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  1. christmasSOCKSinJuly's Avatar
    Okay, I stopped reading when you mentioned the gay part.
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  2. polin's Avatar
    I think that if youre trying too much that maybe shell see right through you. Im a straight forward kind of guy no posturing, just get the job done. Go in there and be yourself because at some point youre gonna realize that if you had to lie.to get with her in the first place then it probably wasnt worth it at all.
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  3. Toast's Avatar
    pretend to be gay?
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  4. T.Wizzle's Avatar
    ur overthinking things.. don't try so hard. relax, be yourself, and have some confidence. if she's not into you, it wasn't meant to be!!
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  5. Toast's Avatar
    If you ask me, I was once single for over ten years. It aint pretty. Once you've been single for a while, you will start to second guess yourself and sometimes, you do what you're doing right now. It what we call 'drastic move'. It's from the phrase, "desparate times call for drastic action" ....but, as I know now, it's not as bad as what you make it to be. It's okay.
    What you just did is normal. All living organism needs response, an interactions with the oposit sex (provided if you're straight aka heterosexual).
    I want to let you know that to meet someone that you genuinely like is hard...and you have to be lucky at love. And, it's not impossible to meet 'a doll face' that you yearn for all your life. It's not too late for you. They say you need to be patience. What they mean is, you need to be prepared. Why? Once you meet her...her being the one, that's when you're already prepared. She is out there waiting for you but as you already know....you're not ready. You know, you can't even support yourself, how else are you going to support a girlfriend that in the future will become your wife who will carry your baby? In conclusion, be prepared. Get ready. Have a 5 year plan. Men will live to about 78 years old, statically speaking. You have a lot of time to prepare for her. You can be 50 and get married and have a family. So, happy preparing for her.
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  6. Matique's Avatar
    Pretend to be gay? lol no no no no no! What you're trying to find is a girlfriend, not a friend! She should like you for who you are, so just be yourself. And if she doesn't like you for you, then it's on to the next. You should hold yourself at a higher standard and be a little more confident. Women will see that and that's what we like.

    Anyways, about the fake phone number thing. I never do that, I just say no lol. Why go through all that hassle. It's not hard to say no. I felt sorry for this guy ONE time because he was autistic, BIG MISTAKE. He was extremely creepy and stalked me. So now I learned my lesson. Just say no, lol.
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  7. ILoveOysters's Avatar
    Are you serious? First off, when you call with a block number, hang up when a female voice answers! that alone tells you that the number is legit. You are pushing this too fast, it makes you come of as desperate, which you probably are. You want to play gay to try to get into her pants? good luck there buddy. You will probably have a better chance running that game on gaykhmerguy. Your game should have been 1) text her something sweet in the evening when shes probably at home alone 2) wait for a reply and play off of what she responded back with 3) send a couple more text messages, don't respond back to one and leave her hanging for the night ( now she will be thinking about you if she was ever really interested) 4) next late morning you have an excuse to call her, apologize and set up something for the weekend 5) for the date, you can bring your dildo if you still want to play the gay game. BTW I am not hating, I just talk a lot
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  8. H_LOVE's Avatar
    why would u pretend to be gay ?!?! wrong game plan if ur trying to get with a girl && why do u even need to pretend !? "keep it real" .. u said so urself.
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