by, 03-13-2012 at 01:02 AM (456 Views)
So.. I got a phone call today during a certain time from a certain friend. I've had these calls before. Today, I happened to miss it but to sum it up.. she basically only calls/texts me when she needs something.
Apparently, I'm the only friend that she can count on to do anything for her. Usually, I wouldn't mind. I love my friends! I love them and treat their kids as if they were my own. I'd do anything for them without expecting anything back.. really. Because I know that if I needed something, my friends would be there for me. I value my friendships. Even though we all have busy lives and do our own thing, we can pick up right where we left off when we link up again.
But since she's been acting crazy since the beginning of last year for one of our guy friends, our relationship hasn't been the same. Since then, we've talked about it, moved on, but the awkwardness was still there sometimes. She just changes when she's around certain people and it annoys the crap out of me. But all in all, I just ignore it and just figure it isn't worth our friendship ending.
I'm at my breaking point with this person though. It's not just with me either, she's been ditching birthday parties and get togethers with a whole lot of people. She's the type of person who wants everyone to do something for her but doesn't have the courtesy to do anything for anybody else. I'm just so over it. Let her find whoever else she can count on. I'm sure I'll confront her about it when she notices something is up.. but for now.. it's just best to keep my distance.
It's sad.. but I'm not crying about it. Just keep it moving.