yeah, i know how that feels like. i had one girl that only call me when/if she needed something. but after awhile i stopped caring and didn't answer her calls bc it only benefit her and not me. i try to cut those type of people off asap. i don't bother with it anymore.

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lol tell your friend that youre not doing anymore favors for her. if she asks why just be honest. sometimes its hard to differentiate between doing a favor for a friend and being taken advantage of. its a grey area sometimes depending on the frequency and the levity of their requests. i limit how much i will do for a friend. i dont mind paying for dinner or loaning a small sum. the most i ever loaned was 100 bucks and its been 7 months and i havent been paid yet. go figure. but i really try not to loan money out to anyone. i find that money or lack thereof will cause a lot of people to change. but money isnt everything. if youre the kind of person that can open your heart and your purse for someone else im impressed. sucks to be your friend, i dont think she realizes what she has.

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i really gave it a chance with her bc we've been friends for so long.. but ppl change.. doesn't mean i still have to like them. and no.. it has nothing to do with money if you got that impression lol.. money doesn't phase me.. it comes and goes.. but i don't let people take advantage of me either. i don't need to tell her that i'm not doing anymore favors for her.. it's not something you just say randomly to someone. that's just unnecessary drama.. she'll figure it out soon enough.

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yea i have a friend that ive known since i was 14. he did some really grimy shit to me a while back but we got through it and were still boys. we been through it all together. we used to get fucked up and cuss eachother out over some dumb shit. then we got into fistfights. shit was really bad when he stabbed me in the back over a girl. haha...i was mad at him for a while but i figured they both fucked up equally and i didnt hold it against either of em. i just forgave them both and moved on. im all the better for it i suppose. i eventually got married and hes got his own girl now. they are happy together so in the end i think time heals a lot of old wounds and perhaps when you look back youll see how petty things are in relation to the big scheme of things. the girl that left me because of him pales in comparison to my wife now. and i didnt mean to assume that it was over money. i was just trying to offer you my example of what happened to me when i do favors for friends. usually they end up inviting me out to eat and i end up paying for the meals. i dont mind depending on how they go about doing it. lmao i think you and me need a new circle of friends.

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fact for me, and probably the same for you, you'll drop friends as you continue to get older.

what happened to your smeltics on sunday?

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boom boom pow > sensitive gfs

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Ugh dont wanna talk about it.. They shouldve won! Lol. At least they won today.. Close but they pulled thru. It was a long ass game so im heading to bed now

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I hate friends who only call you up when they need something. I'd change my phone # and never contact them again. That just shows you they're just using you and see you as a "bitch".

With family is different, but friends - that's not what friends are suppose to do.

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Just ignore and if she ask for favor, make it seems like you don't want to do it. I dislike people like that. You give and they don't take the courtesy to do the same for you.

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:/ i considered her family.. we were really close.. just in the past year that she really changed. oh well, life goes on! thanks everyone.

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