:/ i considered her family.. we were really close.. just in the past year that she really changed. oh well, life goes on! thanks everyone.
Just ignore and if she ask for favor, make it seems like you don't want to do it. I dislike people like that. You give and they don't take the courtesy to do the same for you.
I hate friends who only call you up when they need something. I'd change my phone # and never contact them again. That just shows you they're just using you and see you as a "bitch". With family is different, but friends - that's not what friends are suppose to do.
Ugh dont wanna talk about it.. They shouldve won! Lol. At least they won today.. Close but they pulled thru. It was a long ass game so im heading to bed now
boom boom pow > sensitive gfs
fact for me, and probably the same for you, you'll drop friends as you continue to get older. what happened to your smeltics on sunday?
yea i have a friend that ive known since i was 14. he did some really grimy shit to me a while back but we got through it and were still boys. we been through it all together. we used to get fucked up and cuss eachother out over some dumb shit. then we got into fistfights. shit was really bad when he stabbed me in the back over a girl. haha...i was mad at him for a while but i figured they both fucked up equally and i didnt hold it against either of em. i just forgave them both and moved on. im all the better for it i suppose. i eventually got married and hes got his own girl now. they are happy together so in the end i think time heals a lot of old wounds and perhaps when you look back youll see how petty things are in relation to the big scheme of things. the girl that left me because of him pales in comparison to my wife now. and i didnt mean to assume that it was over money. i was just trying to offer you my example of what happened to me when i do favors for friends. usually they end up inviting me out to eat and i end up paying for the meals. i dont mind depending on how they go about doing it. lmao i think you and me need a new circle of friends.
i really gave it a chance with her bc we've been friends for so long.. but ppl change.. doesn't mean i still have to like them. and no.. it has nothing to do with money if you got that impression lol.. money doesn't phase me.. it comes and goes.. but i don't let people take advantage of me either. i don't need to tell her that i'm not doing anymore favors for her.. it's not something you just say randomly to someone. that's just unnecessary drama.. she'll figure it out soon enough.
lol tell your friend that youre not doing anymore favors for her. if she asks why just be honest. sometimes its hard to differentiate between doing a favor for a friend and being taken advantage of. its a grey area sometimes depending on the frequency and the levity of their requests. i limit how much i will do for a friend. i dont mind paying for dinner or loaning a small sum. the most i ever loaned was 100 bucks and its been 7 months and i havent been paid yet. go figure. but i really try not to loan money out to anyone. i find that money or lack thereof will cause a lot of people to change. but money isnt everything. if youre the kind of person that can open your heart and your purse for someone else im impressed. sucks to be your friend, i dont think she realizes what she has.
yeah, i know how that feels like. i had one girl that only call me when/if she needed something. but after awhile i stopped caring and didn't answer her calls bc it only benefit her and not me. i try to cut those type of people off asap. i don't bother with it anymore.
I hate school!!
i wish!! i just stayed home and update my ipod list.. prepare for hell tomorrow at work lol.
awe, sounds busy! go out and celebrate for a couple hours! =]
nice blog! I am all caught up, hehe though i know most things from FB already lol! I love the vid of her singing , omg how cute!
what do you mean darker shades at the corners? this was a decal i got online lol.. i don't paint if that's what you meant! i wish i could though :/
I like the tree branch. u can really make it come alive with darker shades at the corners. indoor skydiving doesnt give u that "cold feet" feeling, u need to try the real thing lol
Nice read.
yea.. she's been in headstart since she was 2 1/2 months old :T it's always been the same issue. older asian folks keep saying she'll grow out of it but i have a gut feeling that there's something more. will keep you updated!
arwen just turned 4 this past new year. so amelie is a year older. did you have a lot of kids around her as she was growing up? maybe she'll grow out of this.
i know it was kinda long.. just needed to get off my chest amelie's headstart and pre-k have do reviews a few times a month and it's always the socializing and communicating with others aspect that's a problem.. so i'm gonna see if i can see a specialist soon bc i don't want her to struggle in kindergarten, 1st grade, etc. when it's time to do individual work. she's above average academically, but it's just getting her to do the work by herself. like she can read the directions, but she doesn't know what it means. good luck with arwen! i always thought amelie and her were the same age.. no? amelie is 4 1/2 turning 5 this july
nice update. amelie's behavior is almost like my daughter's. I don't hang out much so she's not around that many kids. when we go out, she might play with just one kid. but playing with 2 or more kids, she doesn't like it. I'm going to enroll her in preschool/pre k to see if I could make her more sociable. well, good luck with everything.
my daughter loves sports!! i swear, she's gonna know how to play at least ONE instrument, join a sports team, and/or model. lol... i'm serious.. i got so many white people coming up to me randomly about my daughter that one of these days.. victoria's secret angel here we come.. lol.. so i can be old and she can support me ^.^ hahaha..
if you knew anything.. there's at least one player on the pats team who's half asian.. so in your mok. and honestly.. why don't you preach to your asian brothers to start eating, gaining weight, join a football team, and learn how to throw/catch a ball. do something about it.. cus i don't give a fawkkk.....
Originally Posted by k82562131 what a day for the peeps in massuchuseshetuessuestustes...don't know how to spell that damn state I can't spell it either lol
lol @ african with european descent. isn't it more african descent with european surnames?
gotta love it!
99.9% of the NFL and NBA players are African Americans and European descent. You're rooting for the wrong team. There's a reason why they don't popularize a sport that Asians are good at and dominate in, because they want to be superior and dominate American culture. If you ever have a son/daughter, please don't let him/her watch these hegemonic, racist institutionalized sports events.
what a day for the peeps in massuchuseshetuessuestustes...don't know how to spell that damn state
Vince Wilfork deserves a 2nd Ring!!! INDY WE COMING
I HATE THEM IN A PASSION BUT CONGRATS
Mass is having a good day....i see!
PATS ROCK!!! HERE WE GOO!! YEAHHHHH HOME GIRL!!!
Are you ready now? lol
wehh.. but i feel old!! lmao.. thank you everyone ^.^.. happy early birthday doungjan!! i'll say happy birthday again when the time comes lol
Happy Birthday!!!
nvm! happy 21th birthday!
i tun 21 in a few days too turn 21 on the 21 yay. happy early birthday to both of us
you look like your mom awww both of you gals are pretty. HAPPY BIRTHDAY! come on, you're making us older gals jealous right now....lol
I didn't know you were that young either, hehe but happy early birthday!
yea.. i'm only a baby lol. thanks guys.
damn, u r still a baby. I think we came at the same time, towards the end of 91. Happy Birthday and have fun partying
damn, you're only 20? i thought you were around 24......and i thought i was one of the last few people who left thailand to america. anyway, happy early biiiiiiiiiiiiiirthday!!!!
it's ok. i kinda started it late lol
thank you tidus!
details, we need details. haha
http://www.khmerlife.com/showthread....L-secret-santa
FUCK YEA!!!!!!!!!
Have you tried rollerskating? You should try that too.
omg.. ice skating is no joke lol. my feet hurt.. i think i was more scared of falling than anything.. lucky i didn't. i woulda be traumatized lol.. my bf was annoyed of me at first bc i couldn't help but to cling to him/the wall but he saw how determined i was to get it and now.. i've done enough ice skating to last me the rest of my life lol. one guy sprained his ankle though.. made me more nervous.. i love seeing the little kids zip around in their tiny ice skates.. soo cute! makes me wonder... i haven't rollerblade in forever.. i wonder if it was that hard lol. and yes!! Celtics fan all the way!!!! I miss my boys <3
Have fun on your date and ice skating. Be safe lol I remember my first time falling ice skating lol I thought I had good reflexes for catching myself falling but I'm on ice and ice is slippery hahaha
Yay, I'm assuming you're a Celtics fan? Gooo Celtics!!! lol @ negotiating to go out. I would of gone by myself, I'm so use to it. Have fun first time ice-skating; it's really fun
Some of my co workeres had to rent hotels b/c their power was out. sucks! But yeah, glad halloween is allowed to happen again.
Yea. One death could've been easily avoided. If a tree knocks down a power line while your driving, please don't get out of the car to investigate. You'll just get shocked Great costume. Sushi?
Yeah lucky for us we didn't get any power outages, that sucks if your power goes out and you have no heat. Some of my friends been complaining about that on Facebook. That is one original costume, awesome!!!!
thanks everyone.. i just wanted to do somethin diff this year actually a lot of ppl went out to boston/salem and new hampshire to trick or treat so it wasn't that bad lol. plus, lowell gets to do it again next week haha.. the storm wasn't too bad. there was a lot but most of the snow melted away the next day but it was really windy, leaves were still on trees, and that caused a lot of power outages. lucky for me, mine never went out.
just saw the news of east coast getting slammed with snowstorm which has resulted in some fatalities. hope yall r safe.
Very creative! ...and where is urs?
that is too cute! i'm lazy, i buy them...lol
She's adorable! Congrats, you did a great job! I'm sad you don't get to celebrate it with everyone else because of the weather conditions. I'd like to know how it turns out next week!
wow you made all that yourself? til this day, i still don't get how some people (especially women) could spend so much time in to those things and do them well too. you people are damn creative. if it was me, i'd just buy them. gj on the costume
I hate it when people scoop all the food in their plate but don't eat it all and throw it away. HELLA CHLUY!
isnt that ahhh memo jackson??
not bad it's catchy too heheh
I agree with ya about the bad influence thing. A lot of Disney and Nickelodeon shows have obnoxious brats who try to be little adults. They are beyond disrespectful towards their elders and older siblings. The older siblings tend to be dumbasses who let little kids bully/talk down on them. Back in the days, kids would get their a$s kicked if they treat their older siblings the way kids on tv do now. Ugh! I can't stand em. I can tolerate Disney a little more than Nickelodeon though. And the only show on Nick that I like is Spongebob.
Originally Posted by Mizz_Luv3r men are careless sometimes..lol glad things are working out for you. ugh i know. all the smoking cancelled out the few brain cells he has left. lol thank you!!
men are careless sometimes..lol glad things are working out for you.
thanks. i'm not trying to save the world.
another organization who will keep all the money and Cambodia will see none. these pityful institution scams have been going on for years and years. they know they can get you showing images of poor people and little kids. I think everyone should investigate this organization because most make quick bucks and then disappear, then some guy buys a new villa in the Philipines with cash. besides, in Cambodia it's their own families who make their kids go into the sex trade. NOT like the USA. "a sucker is born every minute" -P.T. Barnum
believe it or not, i bought the shirt. but damn, $5.99 for shipping? BS haha oh well. thanks.
Thanks for the video. Prostitution is a world wide problem, not just Cambodia. In America, there's prostitutes roaming the streets, working at strip clubs and working at massage parlors. I think we need to fix our own problems first before we go to other countries and tell them what to do.
Originally Posted by T.Wizzle yea.. same the first year was born when her father claimed her and i didn't have a job. but these last two years.. he made a lot, claimed her and only got back a few hundred. so i'm claiming her this year and not making the mistake again. he's such an idiot sometimes. even if he does owe, it would still leave us with a few grand still. huyy.. lol. I file our taxes and I always play around with the final numbers before submitting to see whom would get more money when claiming her. Don't forget to file head of household too, that gives you back even more money. Depending on my AGI for that year, sometimes I don't get back much, maybe under a grand to two grand from claiming her....lol Damn tax brackets!
Originally Posted by Mizz_Luv3r I filed head of household and claimed my daughter last year, and damn I got back a few grand...lol yea.. same the first year was born when her father claimed her and i didn't have a job. but these last two years.. he made a lot, claimed her and only got back a few hundred. so i'm claiming her this year and not making the mistake again. he's such an idiot sometimes. even if he does owe, it would still leave us with a few grand still. huyy.. lol.
NFL and NBA lockout. Could this have anything to do with the dollar collapse and 2012? Kind of a coincidence they're both having it at the same time. Maybe the CEO's know something we don't.
david stern is a coward, gonna be a while to watch my lakers game dammit
I filed head of household and claimed my daughter last year, and damn I got back a few grand...lol
Antoine Walker??? The dude is broke because he lent his credit card to his family and friends! Of cours, they all over charged them! As an NBA prominent as he was, you would think he would have a conservative accountant to watch over what he has in his bank. But I guess not. He ends up owing money after his NBA career! Do you and your BF toss $ on NBA games? Let me know if you toss any on any Laker game if the game happens to be at the Staples. I am 9-1 on 2H over/under when I am watching it live at the arena
lol it's ok! yea.. i'm sure nfl will be ok. but this is new and something i didn't expect. i've been a celtics fan growing up. i've had a teacher in my elementary who had hook ups and i've met with the team a number of times. back when walker was captain! lol.. but i started following up even more in the last 5-6 years. it's something my bf and i get crazy about together. huge sports fans in here.. betting here and there helps out with the bills too since I'm always right lol. Yes.. I melt at the mention of Rose.. even before his mvp and all of that. *drools. wish you both a great weekend also!
I love Natalie Portman, too.
I started reading your blog. Next thing I know, I read NBA and NFL. That was when nothing else matters in your blog (hate me, yes, because I am an asshole) . Ah yes, David Stern calls it a "player lockout" today. What more of an asshole he is than I am! You surely follow pro basketball more than my guy buddies....As for NFL, it ain't over until it's over. I truly believe there will be a next season. Derrick Rose--uh, I don't know about him being sexy, but I think he's an awesome slasher. Imagine what he could be in a few years. It's going to be krazzzzzy! And, who cares if he cheated his way through Memphis. The dude has major talent! Why? Cuz I didn't know you had to be smart to play in the NBA. Oh yea, I hope you have a nice 4th of July weekend
*hugs*
Some r just meant to be regardless of their intentions.
lol.. i'm not sure.. well he's been with my ex cousin in law since she was 16. he's now in his early 30's or mid 30's? i don't even know lol ..and didn't even want to get married over there. but he went to visit his mom over there and i guess they just kind of pushed it on him. it's just weird she's my age and she looks just like one of my friends. i think he's happy though. i don't think he would ever want to date another girl from the u.s. again because they all like to go clubbing.. that's how his ex was. so i hope things work out in the long run.
Seem like most of the people I know now married girls from srok khmer. I hope I didnt set any trend. lol
yup.. i see it now on my own comp. .. probably.. he has bigger mood swings than I do. and yes Champe.. I went to Chuck E. Cheese with Amelie lol
I thought I saw you pulling into the China Buffet today
he's going through "man-period" phase? bruno bruno bruno! his music is legit
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thanks guys. trying to keep busy so i don't have time to think about things. i'm on my dad's comp using firefox and i can't see the youtube video i posted. i hope every can see it bc i'm pretty sure i did. oh wells.
Cheer up doll. Nothing bad lasts forever. If he truly loves you, he'll change. Keep reminding yourself that life's short and you'll find your answer to happiness soon enough.
doing the mardizone usually does the trick. anyway, hope u feel better
i don't have a kid, but i can empathize with you. having a kid cute like that is hard to give her up to others, even if it's for a slight moment. i think your got your "shit" straight...keep it up
I'd take Kobe Bryant in a heartbeat...lol Well, good luck to you. Life's short and you deserve nothing but happiness.
yes.. i love the weather right now! but i'd take the cold crisp weather over hot humid weather any day. as long as it's sunny and NOT humid, i'm good. and yea.... he's actually changed A LOT lately.. so we've been good. I think it's mostly due to him working a lot.. but for the most part, believe me, he's changed for the better. I just hope he doesn't revert back to any of his old habits. That, I can't take. I told him that if a basketball star would to approach me, "see ya!" lol!! jk.. maybe
And the cycle continues. My BD actually changed, but it's too late. Time to move on. Hint hint. I probably wouldn't let my kid go. Not overseas without me. Lol
It's a nice day outside where I'm at. Sunny day, blue skies and birds are chirping. Good stuff.
lol seriously!! how are you my love? and how's arwen???
hi girl! i want to be a housewife too...lol time to husband up a white dude...lol